Wednesday, April 29, 2009
Maternity leave!
................Salah ke beranak?
.........................salah ke meramaikan umat manusia di muka bumi ini?
...................Salah ke kami ada anak ni wahai ladyboss HR??? (Ladyboss mada kekkon shitenai kara wakaranai yo neee!!)
Ya Allah, tolong laaa bagi reason lain wahai encik boss. Sy memang marah kerana dia bagi reason ni. Memang tak masuk akal. Sebab ada je 'cha ya nun alif' yg MATERNITY LEAVE + UNPAID LEAVE promoted. Ampess...! Sy tak suke!
Jakel-Jualan Pengosongan Kedai
Ouh.. sy tidak mendapat komisyen apa2 pun drp JAKEL. Saja nak menghebahkan kepada sesiapa yg dok kat JB dan kawasan sekitarnya yg memang tgh nk bershopping atau terpaksa shopping seperti saya. Kebetulan sy mmg nak beli belah kain langsir utk rumah baru, so semlm pegilah. Rupa2nya ada lelongan besar2an. Rejeki2!! Saya memang bajet2 pun utk beli langsir ni tp hasil lelongan, sy dapatlah merasa beli kain langsir yg diluar kemampuan. Hehehe... Sbb harganya masih dalam bajet sy yg ciput ini.:)
Tuesday, April 28, 2009
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Utk penama2 di atas... silalah ambik award ni ye... sy mmg sukeeeeeeeeee sgt blog korang... ni antara blog yg mesti jengah... :)
LEO vs CANCER
Saja copy 2 BINTANG sbb birthday saya kat hujung2 CANCER dan kadang2 diiktiraf sebagai LEO. Dalam banyak2 tu adalaaa beberapa yg TERAMAT laaaaa karakter sy. Hahaha.. Ape dia? Secret!!! Kikiki...
Bintang encik suami adalah LEO-THE BOSS.... boss kami laaa kan.. hehehe
CANCER - The Protector (June 21 - July 22)
Moody, emotional. May be shy. Very loving and caring. Pretty/handsome Excellent partners for life. Protective. Inventive and imaginative. Cautious. Touchy-feely kind of person. Needs love from others. Easily hurt, but sympathetic.
LEO - The Boss (July 23 - Aug 22)
Very organized. Need order in their lives - like being in control. Like boundaries. Tend to take over everything. Bossy. Like to help Others. Social and outgoing. Extroverted. Generous, warm-hearted. Sensitive. Creative energy. Full of themselves. Loving. Doing the right thing is important to Leos. Attractive.
Borang BE..
Utk kengkawan yg belum submit, especially kawan baik sy Puan A**N*, sila lahhhhh hantar ye sebelum terlambat. Nanti anda akan didenda lagi.:)
Increment...
Plg sy tidak suka adalah..... faktor politikus n perkauman yg diamalkan di company sy. Kaum yg 'che ya nun alif' itu di promote setiap tahun sedangkan kaum sy diberi alasan, TAHUN LEPAS SUDAH DIPROMOTE wpun attendance kedua2 calon adalah 100%. Perfomance?? Ouhh, company sy tiada kot kategori ni. Sesiapa yang pandai 'kipas', senang laaa utk dapat gaji lebih. :P
Thursday, April 23, 2009
No TV???
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Pediatricians recommend no TV for children under age 2, yet studies show that three quarters of very young children in America live in homes where the TV is on most of the time, notes the research team led by Dr. Marie Evans Schmidt of the Center on Media and Child Health at Children's Hospital Boston.
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sambungan artikel, kat sini.
TeReBi oH TeReBi..
OK, berbalik kepada TEREBI aka TV, sejak damia dah pandai concentrate terhadap sesuatu ni yg salah satunya adalah TV (BARNEY laaa especially), sy telah memanjakan diri saya dengan menjadikan TV sbg bbsitter bb damia utk sy mandi (dgn tenang??), sembahyang or masak. Saya pernah tertengok dan terdengar kat rancangan MHI, Wardina tu kata kajian kat US, kanak2 lebih dr umur 2 tahun hanya boleh tengok TV selama 2 jam sahaja sehari. Dia sendiri menghadkan TV utk anak2nya. So, saya dengan confidentnya beranggapan kanak2/bb yg kurang dr 2 tahun boleh laaa tengok TV tanpa had pun. Pepandaiii je saya buat teori sy sdiri. :)... Tapi bila saya refer artikel2 dr bbcenter ni, byk kesan2 negatif utk perkembangan cik baby membuatkan saya tak berani mengambil risiko utk meneruskan KEMANJAAN sy itu. Isi kandungannya, sila baca di bawah atau boleh refer artikel2 lain kat sini.
CHILDREN'S TV TIME LINKED WITH BEHAVIORALS PROBLEMS
Fri, Apr 3, 2009 (HealthDay News) -- Parking the kids in front of the TV might seem like an easy way to grab a couple of minutes to relax after work or make dinner, but too much TV time is definitely not a good thing.
Researchers have found that, along with significantly increasing the risk of childhood obesity, the likelihood of behavioral problems also goes up when kids watch more than two hours a day of TV.
"Sustained TV watching has a negative effect on behavior and social skills," said Carla Weidman, a psychologist in the child development unit at Children's Hospital of Pittsburgh.
When children are watching TV, she explained, they're not engaging in other important activities, such as imaginative play. They're also not interacting with others to learn social skills and appropriate ways to resolve conflicts."
"When TV is used as a babysitter or passive entertainment, that's when it's a problem," said Dr. Christopher Lucas, director of the early childhood service at the New York University Child Study Center in New York City. "But, the reality is that parents can't interact with their children all the time, and they have a need for a temporary babysitter."
Some parents might take comfort in the idea that television offerings include educational programming.
"There's a belief that if children are put in front of some educational medium, that it's somehow a good thing," Lucas said. "But, there's evidence that the positive effect of educational programming in the absence of parental interaction is modest."
The average child today spends 45 hours a week with some form of media, compared with just 30 hours in school, according to a report from Common Sense Media. Prepared by researchers from Yale, the U.S. National Institutes of Health and California Pacific Medical Center, the report compiled data from 173 studies on children and media and found that media exposure can contribute to childhood obesity, tobacco use, drug use, alcohol use, poor school achievement, sexual behavior and attention problems.
Problems from media exposure can start at a young age. Johns Hopkins researchers found that by the time a child is 5 1/2, those who've regularly watched more than two hours of TV daily are much more likely to exhibit behavior problems. In fact, aggressive behavior was more than doubled in youngsters who regularly watched more than two hours of television daily.
And, the Hopkins study, which was published in the journal Pediatrics, found that 20 percent of kids from the 2,702 families studied watched more than two hours of TV a day. More than 40 percent of the youngsters had their own TVs in their bedrooms.
"I recommend removing the TV from the bedroom," Weidman said. Along with creating sleep problems, she said, parents simply have no control over what children are watching in their bedrooms, and they're not monitoring the programming.
"There are positives, such as educational TV, but you have to use it judiciously and monitor what the child is watching," she said. "Remember, you are the parent, and you make the decisions. Don't allow TV-watching decisions to be driven by the child."
Lucas agreed. "Try to involve yourself in your kids' media consumption," he said. "You should be aware of what they're watching, and don't have the TV on during meals or in the bedrooms."
But, he said, "don't beat yourself up too much if you plop your kids in front of a DVD sometimes." It's the constant, repeated exposure that seems to increase the risk of behavioral problems, he said.
And one more thing, Lucas suggested: Don't use the TV as background noise. Even young children, who don't understand the news, can pick up on the worry it might cause you, he said.
Tuesday, April 21, 2009
aksi2 terkini...
shomot kan?
wajah shomot saya setelah dimake up oleh papa saya. al maklum laaa sy asyik garu2... papa saya letak bedak agnesia laaa kat kepala... huhuhu. mama sy terkejut n tergelak beso bila tengok kepala saya ni... "lawak ke???" mama saya kata "lawakkkkk n kesian tengok sbb rambut saya jadi kasar2 banget"
mama saya dh belikan buds bb oil instead of pakai bedak kat kepala ni. boleh laaa tahan gatal2 ni sikit wpun tangan sy ni masih gatal2 nak menggaru2.....
Monday, April 20, 2009
Damia.. 10 bulan
Berat : 7.7 kg
Dah 10 bulan dah tuan puteriku. Lagi 2 bulan je damia dh setahun. Perkembangan terkini damia :-
- Berdiri lebih lama tp belum menapak pun walau setapak. Hehehe..
- Gigi ke-2 dah nak keluar.
- Pandai main sembunyi2 dan kejar mengejar. Kejar guna walker laaa.....:)
- Pandai main inai2 baaa aka peek-a-boo aka ciku-cakk. Perkataan faveret, 'Tchakk aaaaa' kekadang jadi 'Phakkk aaa'. Setiap kali nampak mama pakai telekung, damia dulu yang akan cakap.. 'Tchaakk aaaa'...
- Merangkak dah makin power. Sekarang boleh biar je damia merayap. Cuma nak kena pantau kalau damia berdiri kat sofa, kabinet, dinding dll.
- Makin aktiffffff...
- Pandai tunjuk ngan jari telunjuk. Kdg2 dua2 tangan pun keluarkan jari telunjuk. Taktau ape yg ditunjuknya.
- Takut bunyi vakum, blender... Tapi kalau dari jauh sibukk je damia dok jenguk2.
- Takut kucing, ikan... Kalau bawak damia dekat2 ngan binatang2 rasanya semua dia takut kot. Huhuhu..
- Sangat suka tengok bird. Kalau bagitau nak gi tengok bird je, mesti excited habis.
- Pandai kiss. Tapi dengan mulut ternganga laaa, kalo nk kiss dr damia, mesti rela dengan air liur damia... :P
- Pandai salam. Tapi kadang2 je laaaa.... Kena berlatih lagi.. Hehehe.
- Sangat susah utk pakaikan diaper.. Mesti nak bangun n merayap ke mana2.
- Tengok mama n papa makan mesti nk makan jugak walaupun damia baruuuuu je lepas makan.
- Dah pandai babai tapi tangan jer yg terkuit2 ala2 nk menari plaks.
- Bercakap macam2 dah tp mama n papa tak paham satu haper kecuali 'tchakk aaaa'.. hehehe
- Semua benda nk dikutip dan masuk mulut.
- Dah upgrade menu-start makan 'haiwan'. Hahaha, sebelum ni damia vegetarian. Sekrg dh makan ikan tenggiri dan ayam. Daging, supnya aje. Seperti sebelum2 ni, semua damia belasah. Hehehe.. Tak memilih. Harap2 laaa sampai besar. ***Tenggiri : mak bonda n mil ckp gatal kalo makan ikan ni tp org johor ramai yg cakap ok. tengok damia macam tak berapa ok kalau bagi tenggiri. naik gatal2/eczema dia. nanti nk try bg tenggiri aje lam 3-4 hari n monitor ok ke tak.
Monday, April 13, 2009
Selamat Hari Lahir Bondaku..
Saturday, April 11, 2009
Pengharaman Walker
Dulu2, masa saya pregnant saya suke membaca sane sini, tak kiralah internet ke, buku ke atau majalah. Dan selalu yang saya jumpa kat mana2 pun bagitau BAHAYA guna walker. So saya pun setlah minda saya supaya HARAMkan walker utk bakal si kecit saya.
Setelah bb damia lahir pun, saya masih dengan pendapat saya itu dan disokong pulak oleh paed yg selalu check up damia. Saya konfiden habis laaa dengan pendapat saya itu utk tidak membeli walker.....
Tapi.... tapi...............
Segalanya berubah sbb saya tidak dapat memantau damia setiap saat kerana tugasan rumah tangga serta tugasan2 wajib. (Ouuhh... saya tak tetap pendirian ekk??) Papa damia pun mengambil keputusan utk membeli walker utk damia. Masa tu damia dah masuk 8 bulan dan kami pastikan damia dah boleh duduk sendiri tanpa bantuan dah supaya damia boleh duduk dalam walker tanpa PAKSAAN. Kat rumah bbsitter, dari damia 4-5 bulan lagi damia dah dimasukkan dalam walker tapi saya ada menegur bbsitter supaya tidak diletakkan lagi sbb tulangnya masih lembut dan masih belum boleh duduk pun. Kata bbsitter, kononnya nanti CEPAT BERJALAN.. !! Saya tak percaya dengan mitos tuh. Tapi saya tak cakap banyak sangat laaa, diam aje sbb saya hormat dia org tua dan dia yg jaga anak saya.
Sebab ada walker ni, sekarang ni poket kanggaru saya dah kurang berkhidmat kalau kat rumah.. Damia laaa peneman saya kat dapur, kat bilik dan kat mana2 saje.... hehehe
Ni wajah2 damia yang sangat happy masa 1st day beli walker.....
Poket Kanggaru Mama
Dulu mase damia 4-5 bulan slalu merengek nak mama, nk buat keje2 rumah pun susah. So, sbg jalan pintas(?), saya telah membeli poket kanggaru ni kat sini. Terima kasih utk Liz.
Kalau keluar kemana2 pun saya akan bawak poket kanggaru ni sbg back up kalau2 damia boring dok dalam stroller. Buleh saya jadi kanggaru dan bawak anak dalam poket(?).. Hahahaha... Syokkkk!!! Sebab anytime buleh cium2 damia.. hehehe... Damia pun syok gak kot sbb selalunye akan tertido lam poket kanggaru ni.
Tuesday, April 7, 2009
Nihon go berkarat...
HEEBON NO vs HEEBON NA....
Yes... HEEBON NA yg betul kan? hehehehe... Mimi, sila betulkan kalau salah. Bhs jepang saya dah berkarat!! Adushh.... Camana saya nak ambik IKKYU ni...
BerSOSIAL...
First time saya join aktiviti yasin yang dianjurkan oleh perkumpulan wanita di kawasan rumah saya. Best n syok sangat!! Biasanya diorang akan jemput guna 'kertas' yg diletakkan dalam post box, tp hari Sabtu ari tu makcik selang beberapa rumah dr rumah saya merangkap tuan rumah utk majlis tersebut datang jemput sendiri. Lagi saya rasa malu2 katak kalau tak pergi. Sebelum2 ni pun saya amat teringin nk join, tp biasanya dibuat pd hari Sabtu dan Sabtu biasanya saya tiada kat rumah atau.... (reason2 lain laaa...)
Saya tabik spring (toing!toing!toing!) kepada perkumpulan wanita kat Johor ni. Rajinn diorang ni menganjurkan majlis2 macam ni. Masa nilah kita boleh kenal jiran dengan lebih dekat dan berkongsi berita2 sensasi(??). Opss.. bukan mengumpat ye adek2 dan kakak2.. Berita sensasi pada hari tersebut ialah KES RAGUT! Amat menakutkan rupanya kejadian2 yg berlaku di kawasan kejiranan saya ni. Adeihh... takutnye laa zaman sekrg ni. Oh ya, dikesempatan majlis tu jugak, ada beberapa org yang ambik peluang utk mempromosikan bisnes diorang. Bagus jugak tu... Saya? Tukang tanya, tukang dengar n tukang beli! Hahahaha... Dah confirm nak beli tupperware ngan sorang akak ni.. Oklaaa kan, buleh jugak membantu bisnes2 surirumah ni. Saya plak sbb muka baru, masih segan2 malu2 katak utk promote jualan tudung bawal saya. Nantilah kalau ada peluang join lagi, baru nk try promote.
Ouh... utk warga Johor terutamanya warga Senai/Kulai, silalah berhati2 kalau pergi ke TJ Mart ye. Kat situ dah banyak kejadian ragut dan ambik troli yg penuh muatan. Harap2 anda tak menjadi MANGSA ye.
Sunday, April 5, 2009
RuMaH BaRu..
Saturday, April 4, 2009
Usaha tangga kejayaan...
Ni ape yg aku buat selama seminggu ni...
- Pam.. pam... pam.... Kat ofis 3X n sambung kat rumah 3X. Plan sepatutnye 7 kali kalau utk buat stok, tapi badan aku tak mampu nk bangun. Huhuhu. Kat ofis, pkl9-pkl1220-pkl430. Kat rumah, sebelum tido lam pkl 10/11-pkl2/3 pagi-pkl5 pagi. Hasilnye mmg cukup2 utk bekalan damia 3oz X 7botol. Sbb hasil setiap kali sesi mengepam tu tak banyak sangat. Average kat ofis 3-4oz. Kalau kat rumah 2-3oz sahaja. Kalau dapat 3oz kat rumah tu, mmg aku sangat laaa happy.:))
- Minum air longan tiap2 hari.
- Minum Rich Milk Tea-WILDROOT BOTANICALS 2X sehari. Teh herba yg tak berapa sedap yg aku pernah cerita kat sini.
- Makan PIL ASI yg dibeli kat sini. Dulu pil ASI ni RM15 je sekotak tapi sekarang dah naik harga jadik RM20 dah.
- Minum susu DUTCH LADY-low fat tu sekotak sehari.
- Minum air yg banyak-2liter sehari.
- Makan sayur2 dalam kuantiti yg banyak especially lobak putih.
- Ponteng diet nasi aku.
- Minum MILO+OAT setiap pagi.
Oh Tuhan, permudahkanlah aku dalam meneruskan usaha menyusukan damia....
Friday, April 3, 2009
Meruntun jiwa raga....
- BBsitter damia report ebm 3 oz X 6 botol tak cukup... huhu.. sgt sadis.. Next day tu bagi 7botol pun tak cukup gak...
- Tgk stok ebm kat lam frezeer 0 oz!
- Hasil perahan jauh lebih sket dr demand. 6X pam pun still tak cukup...
- ........31032009-terpaksa pergi melilau kat kedai runcit nk carik susu formula apa nk distandbykan utk damia incase menangis tak cukup susu (sangat sakit hati n sedih!). Pening aku nk pilih susu, taktau mana satu nak beli. Last2 beli NAN-HA1.(HA:hypoallergernic) Sbb damia allergik susu lembu n ada eczema.
- Damia benci FM! siap nak muntah tuh masa mula2 try... (siap 'bluekkkkkkk' ok)
- 01042009-BBsitter bagi minum FM sambil pujuk-paksa... Damia menangis sambil minum FM... (lagiiii laa aku sedih..) Try lagi susu lain kot2 sbb susu tu tak sedap. Beli plak ISOMIL. Before ni damia pernah minum susu ni masa BM ku still tak stabil dulu2. Tp try bagi pun tak jalan gak... BM paling best utk damia...
- 02042009-Pun lagi skali damia minum sambil nangis. Cuma damia sedikit excited bila diberi minum menggunakan cup. Sambil minum sambil nangis... Pun dipujuk-paksa minum oleh bbsitter. ***Hari ni aku plan nak balik utk hantar susu tgh ari, tapi memandangkan masih ade 3 hari utk hari bekerja, aku rasa aku tak dapat jugak nk cukup kan bekalan ebm utk damia utk hari seterusnya.